I don’t normally talk about sex so much on this blog (maybe because I haven’t had any, haha), but I just feel compelled to this time (don’t worry – no gory details – or, I’m sorry in advance for no gory details, depending on what you were hoping for!). Anyway, on Tuesday Jake Ryan called saying he thinks he thought he could get out of work early and asked if he could come by and see me, so of course I said yes. He brought me dinner (a sampling of different pizzas, lol), and we got into bed to watch a DVD but of course one thing led to another, although we didn’t go all the way (he’s REALLY good about respecting what I want – he never does anything to make me feel uncomfortable, and is always very aware of what my boundaries are and never pushes for me even though he (visibly) wants more).

He went home around midnight b/c he didn’t have any clothes for work the next day, and I fell asleep happy. He texted yesterday afternoon and then later called me around 10, but I was on the phone with my parents so didn’t pick up. When we hung up I looked at my phone and he had sent a text going “Hey what if I told you I’m trying to pick your butt up in a cab right now…” so I called him back immediately, and he said he’d just gotten back to the city and was in a cab headed to my apartment, and asked if I’d like to go down to his apartment for the night.

Obviously my answer was yes, and I couldn’t really believe that he was actually just heading on over to mine in the hopes that I’d go back to his place with him, lol. (Even though it’s slightly presumptuous!) So I got up, gathered my eye drops and toothbrush and bundled up to head outside, where he was already waiting. Part of the reason I went was not only because I wanted to see him, but also cause I was curious about his apartment and what it looked like – there’s always something personal about a living space, regardless of whether there are any photos or other things up.

We got to his and then I saw his guitars, and asked him to play and sing for me, and even though he was shy about it at first he picked it up and started playing a sampler of songs that he knows, even singing along to all the acoustic songs, including some of my favorites like Jason Mraz’s “I’m Yours” and “Lucky” (SWOON). Seriously, I couldn’t stop smiling when he was singing and playing the guitar. This is the second guitar player I’ve ever dated, and I LOVE talented boys!

In bed later we somehow started wrestling, until I made him stop (probably not good for my eye…) and he was being all goofy and going a little nuts, but I could tell he was just being himself and it was kinda cute that he was comfortable enough to do that in front of me and not worry about me judging him. Anyway we ended up doing the deed after he did some work and I was trying to sleep in his bed, and god it was good. haha AND he cuddled after – how perfect is he? haha Later he even apologized for having to detach himself from me so he could sleep properly – I mean seriously, I don’t mind, I understand it’s more comfortable to sleep without being stuck to someone else, but he was like “I’m sorry, thank you for understanding”. WHAT? haha

My bff was like “There has to be SOMETHING wrong with him…” haha.

I’m happy. And it’s so nice to be happy about a boy again, especially one as sweet as Jake Ryan! Not sure when I’m seeing again before Sunday (told him I’d like to treat him to brunch to thank him for spending practically all last weekend in the hospital with me), but in the meantime it’s awesome to just be able to smile everytime I think of him (ok, feel free to puke up a little bit right now).