This article in the NYTimes is pretty interesting, about how people in our generation tend to share how much they’re making a lot more than the generation before.
Personally? A few people knew how much I was making at my first job, but only Colin and another guy friend know what I’m making now. I only have a rough idea of what a couple of friends are making, but no exact numbers (well, except for one friend). (eg. Colin makes approximately twice what I do (after US taxes), which means he actually gets paid a sh*tload) None of my colleagues know what I make, and I think that’s a good thing just cause it can be…friendlier that way.
I don’t know about anyone else, but I don’t really want people to know what I’m making unless maybe it’s someone in the same industry in a position above me and I’m trying to get a job, for example.
I don’t want to feel poor compared to my friends (poor WITH my friends, however, is a different story – not that I’m poor, but you know what I mean – being cheap, for example, together, finding random happy hours, bargain shopping, etc). At the same time though, I feel like you can kind of gauge how much anyone is making just by the industry they’re in and their jobs – for example, it’s obvious that lawyers and bankers make a ton of money, while, I dunno, advertising is average pay, so it isn’t really necessary to know exactly how much anyone makes to be considerate of each other when planning group dinners/drinks/activities.
What I earn is still kind of private to me, and I just don’t need a bunch of people knowing what I make! Besides, they can approximate just by knowing what I do.
Do you share what you earn with your friends? Why or why not?

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April 29, 2008 at 5:08 pm
Boldly benny
Heya, first of all I just wanted to pop in because I recently found your blog and have been reading about your break-up. My heart was broken last year March and it was one of the most difficult break-ups I went through for various reasons. I could see many similarities between it and your break-up with Colin but I guess break-ups often have certain commonalities. I’m sorry for you heartache but you seem to have a very positive attitude.
As for your money question, no-one except for one of my sisters and my boyfriend know what I earn. Usually I wouldn’t let anyone know what I’m earning because I consider it something private, but I chatted to them about my package when I was negotiating my deal and that is how they found out what I was earning!
April 29, 2008 at 9:49 pm
Arielle
Some of my friends know what I make. Some of them don’t. It just sort of happens organically, or it doesn’t. And some friends are weird about money and some aren’t. So it sort of depends.
April 30, 2008 at 6:01 am
JenBun
I make 50 bazillionty dollars (US!) a week, and I don’t care WHO knows it!!!
April 30, 2008 at 8:04 am
Holy Vataha
Hmmm I would say my friends know, but it is my first job and I think you kinda ask around and discuss how entry level jobs pay to make sure you’re not working for peanuts.
Oh and I work in advertising, and I do get payed peanuts…haha…but I’m a lowly designer who loves my job so I don’t really care!
April 30, 2008 at 9:51 pm
Maxie
I actually do share what I make with my friends… but usually to prove the point as to why I’m so broke all the time!