Round 2 of answers, questions on this post. (If any of you have more questions for me, leave a comment on that post or here!)

Little Miss Matchmaker: Who is your perfect guy? Write a list!

Oh wow. I feel like they are generally the same things every girl wants, but here I go:

  • Physically: Tall, around 6′, give or take 1.5 inches (I love tall guys), nice hands & arms & shoulders, good weight for their height (not fat but not skinny either, some muscle tone would be nice), good hygiene (this is a MUST), great smile
  • Keeps me on my toes mentally – I love when a guy knows more things than I do and I can learn from them, but he must not be condescending or patronizing in any way, and also open to listening to my opinions and ideas. And physically – I love a guy who can dance! ;)
  • Traits: Confident, good sense of humour – I list these two together because he must be able to take it when I make fun of him (affectionately!), and also must be secure in knowing that I am his, but also able to display a little jealously every once in a while…;), affectionate but not over the top, thoughtful, romantic (at least BE a romantic…because I’m one!), considerate, a gentleman (door opening, etc), smart when it comes to people as well as book-smart, mature but still playful and gets a kick out of me acting like a child (in the good way, not being childish, eg. “HAHA you said balls!” lol – see, just thinking about that cracks me up…), good at money stuff, cause I’m really not that good at it, non-smoker
  • Likes: travel, good food (will at least try anything once), good wine (knowledge of wine a plus), spoiling me for no reason ;) , sex (obvs. but just thought I should say it anyway. haha), art (ie would take me to new exhibits, and KNOW about them before I do), music & concerts, New York, California and Hong Kong (seeing as I’ll be living in any one of these places in the future), believes in private school for future kids, cooking (for me. or together.), musicals, ballet & the theatre (or at least be open minded to attend them with me), reading, his job – this one is important, because if you’re unhappy with your job you tend to be unhappy generally, pets, chick flicks (even if he pretends not to), taking care of me (in my past relationships I feel like I was always the one taking care of my bf, and for once I want to feel taken care of.)
  • Doesn’t have a crazy mother. Seriously.
  • Doesn’t have a myriad of issues – with the world, with himself, whatever. (I don’t need someone who wants to save the world and works himself up into a stress-case because he can’t. No thanks.)
  • He loves me more than I love him – at least a little. I know this sounds petty, but it’s important to me because I hate when I love the guy more, and ultimately those are the relationships that have ended with me broken-hearted. I know that love can’t really be measured, but at the same time in a relationship, you just know who it is, even if it’s never said out loud. (It’s also something my grandma keeps telling me to find – right, because it’s so easy!)
  • Most importantly, he must treat me like a Queen, to the point where I feel completely safe, happy and loved without a shred of doubt in him or our relationship, but still be a man (ie not a complete pushover. Those are annoying too.)
I think that’s it for now, but this list is prone to being tweaked/added to every once in a while…;)
What’s on your list??
PS. My friend Leah put that poster up in our living room in our last year of uni. Needless to say, the boys we lived with complained about it all the time. LoL ;)